Wednesday, February 11, 2015

January -February

2014 ends...
http://flipagram.com/f/OVklW6UXNJ

2015 begins...
New favorite Avaisms...
"for goodness sakes"
"off the hook"
"ve-za-za"  (her "French word for vagina")

Ava will be 7 this year.  WOW!  7.  Lucky little lady.  Her whole life still ahead of her, and she is doing great.  One step at a time she grows and changes right before our eyes.  She shows a love for making up games, making stuff out of trash, reading, math, independence, and her BFF Finley.  Finley says Ava is the funniest person she knows and Ava says Finley is the happiest.  I think that makes a good recipe for a first friendship. 

I can't really say I miss the toddler days because this past year has been so much fun.  She got some freedom, and Mom got some freedom; that is also a recipe for happiness. 

This year I aim to teach her that everyday you are blessed to wake up is another day to get it right.  Take advantage; live life to its fullest.  Be happy. Be thankful. Be forgiving. Be you!

Stuff....

CLUE becomes a favorite game
Mean game of CLUE going on tonight.

I follow National Geographic on Instagram and it's eye opening & awe inspiring. One thing I take away from them...the environment is in danger. 


In anticipation of painters coming to reface my cabinets, I cleared out 23 cabinets & kept what we really use & need into 5 cabinets...that's it, 5!   So sad  it is in our nature to think we need all 28 cabinets full. My New Year's resolution is to simplify our lives of all this crap.  The drawer below shows items I really need daily, but there was so much more crap, & it was spread across 10 full drawers. I needed 3.
In anticipation of painters coming to reface my cabinets, I have cleared out 23 cabinets & kept what we really use & need into 5 cabinets...that's it, 5.  So sad that it is in our nature to think we need all 28 cabinets full.  My New Year's resolution, simplify our lives of all this crap.  

The drawer below shows items I really need daily, but there was more, & it was spread across 10 full drawers.

Yes.  Remember.
Reminder.

Paris... Freedom of Speech will always stand strongest.
 'We are not afraid' !! (My favorite picture after the brutal murders at Charlie Hebdo)
Kel Moore's photo.


http://blog.sfgate.com/morford/2015/01/14/frances-war-on-terrorism-bush-sized-mistake/
I am not 100% on board with everything in this article, but pretty damn close. One thing that moved me after the horrible events in France were the people (not the PM). They gathered in enormous numbers & quietly took a peaceful stand. It gave me the chills to see that many people taking a stand in a way I could relate to. I wanted to jump on an airline & join them. I believe in fighting evil with peace. Evil cannot thrive amongst unity, understanding, acceptance, & peace. The French people will not win this war, but maybe they set a new standard.

I didn't know about this, and I am obviously totally into it! Thanks Kelly Humphry for posting this.
http://omeleto.com/203170/


We haven't had much snow or cold this year, but I have to admit, sledding when it's in the 30's is way more fun...
Sunset sledding...& it's only 4 something. BUT, sunset is now at 5:03!  Progress to longer days!Sledding when it's in the 30's is way more fun for Mom.


Random...."Mom, I challenge you to a dance off to Ice Ice Baby!" GAME ON!


In the gardening world, if you get your Rosemary to live through the winter indoors, you are a master gardener. I am not. I had to replant this week, but I have high hopes for this amazing Tuscan Blue version. "I think I can!"
In the gardening world, if you get your Rosemary to live through the winter indoors, you are a master gardener.  I am not.  I had to replant this week, but I have high hopes for this amazing Tuscan Blue version.  "I think I can!"


January  has been a roller coaster of ups & downs, but today when the all call went through at school that I would be subbing PE & I could hear all the kids cheer, that one single moment, made everything ok. ‪#‎ilovemyschool

The best way to end our week...croissants from Suzanne's Swiss Bakery! We are very happy right now!
The best way to end our week...croissants from Suzanne's Swiss Bakery!  We are very happy right now!

Warms a Mother's heart to see a saw off to the right of the picture declaring a similar love for trees.
Warms a Mother's heart to see a saw off to the right of the picture declaring a similar love for trees.


Ava is a sleep walker so we rig things up to hear her on the move. Last night I hear her door slam open & hear her saying, "ok, one second." I quietly ask her where she is going.
"To get a kite."
"Who are you flying kites with?"
"With Mommy."
aaaaahhh!! dreams about flying kites together. I pick her stiff sleep walking self up & tell her I'd fly kites with her any day. She zonks out & sleeps until 7:12! Successful sleep walking night & I'm still smiling about kite flying.

So 40 is looming around me, & quietly waiting to take over in March...in order to embrace this next chapter, I have started with an out of the box theme song for my 40th year. Pitbull's Time of Our Lives. If you hear me blaring it, I am having a moment; let me enjoy the loudness, I promise I will move on.


Me tuning out the world today. ‪#‎thankfulformusic
Me tuning out the world today.  #thankfulformusic


Camp Hamilton...
We finally made it down to celebrate 69 years with my Dad. We had such a hilarious time. Best moment...Ava patiently waiting for the glasses of wine to be poured, then with eyes darting around, dips her finger in my glass (& not only once) & licks it clean while saying, "mmmm". Great.
We finally made it down to celebrate 69 years with my Dad.  We had such a hilarious time.  Best moment...Ava patiently waiting for the glasses of wine to be poured, then with eyes darting around, dips her finger in my glass (& not only once) & licks it clean while saying, "mmmm".  Great.

In Nauvoo, Il....

We visit Uncle Dale who is recovering quit nicely after open heart surgery for a heart aneurism.  We spend three hours visiting, then take a walk, then drive around down memory lane.
Uncle Sake recovering nicely from open heart surgery!

Many a trips down this gigantic hill on skateboards as kids.  It used to seem so big.
Many a trips down this gigantic hill on skateboards...

Uncle Dale's back-back yard.  So pretty.
Winter pretty

Close your eyes & envision a bunch of cousins walking this very creek 4 seasons out of the year...circa 1970's-1990's
Close your eyes & envision a bunch of cousins walking this very creek 4 seasons out of the year

My Stop...
The past never looks the same in the future, but driving by Grandma Lula's old house still brings forth many great memories
The past never looks the same in the future, but driving by Grandma Lula's old house still brings forth many great memories

Ava's stop
Ava's stop

Dejan's stop....my german aunt=liquor supply
Dejan's stop

Aunt Rosa partaking at 82.
Aunt Rosa partaking at 82.

icy Mississippi
icy mississippi

Cornfield in waiting
Cornfield in waiting....


something to be excited about...
If you sit right there, you can feel the earth has shifted; the sun will warm you like a summer day.
If you sit right there, you can feel the earth has shifted; the sun will warm you like a summer day.


Jon Stewart leaves late night & I'm sad about that...
"Chaos cannot sustain itself. Never has, never will," says Jon Stewart one night when he stopped making jokes.   I can't help but think Jon has chosen a very poignant time to leave Late Night...all three times he stopped making jokes were in the last decade; humanity really is sad. I will miss his show & the sarcasm I love.
http://thinkprogress.org/culture/2015/02/10/3621678/3-times-jon-stewart-stopped-making-jokes/


Saturday, January 3, 2015

December 2014

Iowa life...McDonald's drive thru at 10pm...
Iowa life...McDonald's drive thru at 10pm...
 
Still getting random sweeties after 20 years.
Francesca Harris Djordjevich's photo.Francesca Harris Djordjevich's photo.

This year, I retired from decorating. I passed the torch & am enjoying the entertainment from the couch.
This year, I retired from decorating.  I passed the torch & am enjoying the entertainment from the couch.

Instead of Christmas carols, there is a song competition of whether or not Obama is the best or worst president ever...Ava wins with her clear loud voice!  (video)


You see, I'm still watching...so happy to have my parents this year to help us. 
You see, I'm still watching.  :)

Not quite done, but good enough for a picture...
Not quit done, but good enough

She finally composes a letter to Santa...  I love it so much!
Ava D.


Traditional frosting of the cookies.  This one on one time is so special to me.  Dejan even joined us this year and, in true fashion, made an enormous double decker frosted cookie sandwich. 
COOKIES!!!!!



"Aahh, how sweet of Ava to write this on my to do list for tomorrow!" (just FYI, it says 'Love you Mom'). But what the hell is up with the sad crying face with an arrow pointing to Mom!!! I can't wait to hear her explanation in the morning.   (she told me it was meant to be a funny picture to make me laugh)
"Aahh, how sweet of Ava to write this on my to do list for tomorrow!"  (just FYI, it says 'Love you Mom'). But what the hell is up with the sad crying face with an arrow pointing to Mom!!!  I can't wait to hear her explanation in the morning.


December 15--Ava loses her first tooth at school!!!

The Tooth Fairy made her first appearance in our house last night. Hopefully money will satisfy my daughter, who never forgot the Binky Fairy left her a BuzzLightYear Talking Toy (what were we thinking!!??)
The Tooth Fairy made her first appearance in our house last night.  Hopefully sparkly money will satisfy my daughter who never forgot the Binky Fairy left her a BuzzLightYear Talking Toy (what were we thinking!!??)

She said...."She used my glitter & my perfume! Next time I'm leaving her a note to pay me $2.99 for using my stuff!"
I better try a little harder next time. 
She said....she used my glitter & my perfume!  Next time I'm leaving her a note to pay me $2.99 for using my stuff! 
Lord help us!


December 16--She actually pulled the second tooth out!!! I screamed! She was so excited & proud that she talked non stop for 1 hour. WHEW!!
She actually pulled the second tooth out!!!  I screamed!  She was so excited & proud that she talked non stop for 1 hour.  WHEW!!


No better way to show the love a daughter has for her mother than a pie in the face! (fundraiser at school)

 
Nothing better than throwing pie in your mamma's face!

Friends that get pie in the face together stay together! Thanks for being such a fun friend Franny!
— with Sara Johnson
 
Hooligans enjoyed throwing pie in my face a little too much.




I'm wrapping presents & loved finding her making a Santa Sleigh, complete with Rudolph.
I'm wrapping presents & loved finding her making herself a Santa Sleigh complete with Rudolph.
 
 
This struck me tonight, and sort of made my heart ache. I see myself, my sisters, and for that matter, all of you. Age. Life's curse, but also life's greatest gift.
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2014/10/03/magazine/01-brown-sisters-forty-years.html?WT.mc_id=AD-D-E-KEYWEE-SOC-FP-DEC-AUD-DEV-DSK-1201-1231&ad-keywords=AD1214KW&kwp_0=5864&kwp_1=114034&kwp_4=44536&_r=1


10 cookies from Santa....check!! I am most excited about this gift!
10 cookies from Santa....check!!  I am most excited about this gift!
 
Our first Christmas at home...kind of fun, kind of quiet, but cuddling with Ava watching 'It's a Wonderful Life' seems pretty sweet right now.
Our first Christmas at home...kind of fun, kind of quiet, but cuddling with Ava watching It's a Wonderful Life seems pretty sweet right now.

We walked into church & Father Jim, who knows us through school, asked Ava to carry baby Jesus up. Her & Travis (who was kind enough to escort Ava up when she got nervous & is in her class) walked together & sort of acted like stars of the show, waving & talking to their friends in the aisle. It was a crack. Andrea Wanner
Assisi Umbria's photo.  Assisi Umbria's photo.


 
And then you have to open & put together all the toys.... Merry Christmas Friends!

My first Christmas Feast...
My first Christmas Feast...
 
Tradition.
Tradition.
 
 
Remote Control Flying Plane. Winner.
Remote Control Flying Plane.  Winner.
 
I can now tune out the world when needed. Winner!
I can now tune out the world when needed.  Winner!
 
My Mom gave up Christmas for the first time in 17 years. Her reward, Ava asked someone other than me to put her to bed for the first time in 6.5 years. Give & Take. Thanks Mom. Our first Christmas in our own home ends sweet.
 
My Mom gave up Christmas for the first time in 17 years.  Her reward, Ava asked someone other than me to put her to bed for the first time in 6.5 years.  Give & Take.  Thanks Mom.   Our first Christmas in our own home ends sweet.
 
Second Christmas=basement dance party. Happy Birthday Baby Jesus. Rosanna Harris Seabold
Second Christmas=basement dance party.  Happy Birthday Baby Jesus.  Rosanna Harris Seabold
 
Because every kid should be reading Captain Underpants...
Because every kid should be reading Captain Underpants...
 
We've moved the party outside with a firepit... Cold weather? Who cares when there's enough wine flowing.
 
We've moved the party outside with a fire pit... Cold weather?  Who cares when there's enough wine flowing.
 


Fierce!
Missing my sister Jennifer & James Bernard Conn
— with Mark Seabold and Rosanna Harris Seabold.

Fierce!  
Missing my sister Jennifer & James Bernard Conn

 
Happy New Year...celebrations are quite different these days, but I wouldn't change a thing. Love to all of you in 2015.
 
 
Cheers to 2015!
Cheers to 2015!  Cheers to 2015!

 
Random Christmas pictures that make me smile over good memories and lots of laughs...